From Palms to Crosses - Mentoring the Next Generation

They often inspired me to be greater. In some cases, it was their “enlightened self-interest” that helped me out, but for many, it was a true desire to teach a student. They are the saints in my life. Do you know who the saints have been in your life? Do you remember who lifted you up when you were in need? Who really inspired you to actively be better and change your course? I remember. I remember them all.

I’m the guy who listened. I took notes. I practiced. I attended seminars to be inspired. I read the books. I listened to the audios. I watched the videos. Now I want all of my mentors to know I love them for it.

I crossed paths with many mentors, friends, and influencers of all types as I grew up. I was a sponge throughout my life. I learned that there is really no separation between your home and work life. They are a continuation of the same behaviors. As I reflected on how the story of my life in mentorship unfolded, it became clear that there were phases in my development. I now see these stages as ongoing—not necessarily based on age maturity but rather on emotional maturity.

I need to be actively engaged, as best I can, to mentor the next generation nd teach what I've learned before it is lost. One of my best mentors saw the opportunity to create a course called Grandparents Matter. Yes, I’m the guy who took a course to learn how to be a better grandparent. Like most grandparents, time and distance can present themselves as problems to overcome when mentoring. . Problems to overcome, but do your best when you can. The influence of my mentors is ringing out in my mind loud and clear. Keep the next generation in the faith. Keep God in their presence…and always be their guide.



On Palm Sunday, it has been a ritual in our family to take the palms we receive, have them blessed, and creatively turn them into crosses. Those crosses represent family members and special people in our life to pray for…for the next year. Here is my opportunity to teach my grandkids to make crosses. Three distinct personalities; three crosses; keeping the tradition alive. Praise be Jesus Christ for the opportunity to be with you physically and in mind and spirit.